Dr. Rajan Bhonsle
Acclaimed as India’s top sexologist, Professor Dr. Rajan Bhonsle, MD, is a Senior Sex Therapist and Consultant from Mumbai, practicing for more than 35 years. he is an honorable p Less
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‘Love making’ involves a sensual interaction of feelings, expressed physically through touch, kissing by two people in love… also colloquially called ‘chemistry’!
When the right emotions arise, the body opens up to ‘erogenous zones’, which remain closed (dormant) during routine daily activities. Academically speaking, ‘erogenous zones’ are those special areas of our body that are particularly sensitive to sexual arousal… only when touched in a particular way by a particular person at a particular time.
When sexually touched, kissed, or caressed by a romantic partner during intimacy, these erogenous zones can excite a person excessively, causing him to experience intense physical pleasure and emotional high… by both partners. Depends on the depth of participation and the intensity of participation. ,
However, if similar areas of the body are touched by a partner or spouse at an unexpected, unexpected or unwanted moment, it may go completely unnoticed or even considered unpleasant. can go. Touched by a stranger or intruder, it can also be a ‘traumatic’ experience for the reluctant participant/victim, while the body areas may still be the same.
In short, the ‘erogenous zone’ is much more than the areas of our body that are sensitive to sexual stimulation. When accompanied by the appropriate emotions and desire to act sexually… and the way these body parts are touched, it makes them ‘erogenous zones’.
The three academically documented erogenous zones include the lips, breasts and genitals. Some of the other erogenous zones may include the neck, ears, shoulders, arms, legs, back, groin, and even feet… and vary from person to person. Just as the stripes of every zebra are similar, but they still differ on each zebra, we all have erogenous zones, although they differ from individual to individual. A mole or birthmark can very well be considered as a beauty spot which makes it sensual for either or both the partners.
Never hesitate to explore your erogenous zone and your partner’s body to find out what your erogenous zones are and then talk openly about it with each other.
Communication is a far more effective, respectful and intimate tool for discovering your partner’s ‘erogenous zone’ than citing infamous pornographic material to exaggerate and misrepresent data.
Disclaimer
The views expressed above are those of the author.
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