The life of a married woman is very different from that of a single woman. For some, being married equals a lot of restrictions. One such trend is going viral on Twitter where a user narrated how his previous marriage and petty issues have contributed to his anxiety. “My cousin is going to America, can I visit her?” “A family member is getting married, will you come to the wedding?” Everything involved ego stroking, begging, pleading,” she wrote. He further wrote, ‘A lot of Indian men and their families like to make all these little things a matter of pride. There’s nothing to be proud of if you’re controlling someone and stressing them out over unimportant things.” Take a look:
Sometimes I think about my last marriage and the little things that used to worry me. “My cousin is going to America, can I visit her?” “A family member is getting married, will you come to the wedding?” Everything involved was ego stroking, begging, begging.
— Neeru Nagarajan (@poonaikaari) 15 June 2022
This thread has gone viral since it was uploaded. It has garnered over 1K likes and tons of comments from netizens. “I’ve suffered so much trauma and gaslighting that I didn’t even know what was going on, until I messed up every subsequent relationship. Of course, it also forced me to choose the wrong relationships, Commented a Twitter user. Several women were associated with him. A Twitter user wrote, “It is very common in desi families. Joint Family Main TU Multiple level permissions. Mian mother-in-law and then on the day of the incident, if little Nand is in a bad mood or his friends are coming, you cannot go.” Here are some reactions:
Tell me about this. I used to sleepless for two days and nights that I could muster up the courage to ask MIL if I could visit my family. Now I look back and wonder why I did this but I was so young at the time. Now I am angry auntie so no one dares to say anything
— Alia Waheed (@AliaWaheed) June 17, 2022
The ‘regret’ of those early adjustments, just because you’re a good person, never goes away. Because once you realize that it was all in vain, you yourself become angry. “Why did I let this happen to me?” is a very difficult question to answer.
— ravia (@Quaintrelle21) June 17, 2022
My last relationship breath. I still worry about asking this to a new partner.
— Rebelia #GetIntoRugby (@darthdevi) 16 June 2022
Pardon. I know how it breaks you.
Anxiety, fear, numbness, hopelessness and depression. Changed my world, my life, turned myself upside down.
Sending love your way!
— Farah (@beau_reveur) 16 June 2022
It depends on how you look at it. If you really love the family you marry and are looking for people to bond with then you have to indulge in these things but again it depends on whether you do it from your heart are doing or not. https://t.co/cgwd771p5o
— existing (@YoMadarasiMunda) June 17, 2022
It’s really so true…Marriage just takes away your personality and sense of control.. It’s like it’s not your life but your husband and your in-laws’ life. Have to ask about meeting also.. Staying together for a few days and with your mother.. https://t.co/YZK1RlC2f1
— Spree Di’s BBB. (@literaldrama) June 17, 2022
This is a topic that is rarely discussed. And I mean in a non-specific way of gender.
Also, there is a rift between friends as well. Always guessing, waiting, hoping.
A lot of self care helps to get out of such a place. https://t.co/rSwNVRshfH— Gauri Saiprasad (@GSayiprasad) June 17, 2022
Earlier, a Reddit user shared the struggle of being a ‘married working’ Indian woman. As the pandemic has shifted work to a complete dynamic, working from home has become even more difficult when one has to cook and clean, while making office calls and trying to earn KRAs. Everyone’s needs have to be met. “Nothing is wrong in my life. Everything is fine, I just want to share my story. I am feeling very anxious since 2-3 months,” wrote the woman.
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