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Siblings Day 2023: How to prepare your firstborn for the new baby

April 10, 2023
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Last Update: April 10, 2023, 07:30 IST

Siblings Day 2023: As a child, your first child is unable to understand what the new child is going through. (Getty Images)

Siblings Day 2023: The first and foremost thing that you have to do is to tell them that they will soon have a sibling. Tell them they’re going to be a big sister or brother

Siblings Day 2023: If you have a new baby, the fixed equations and routines in your daily family life will undoubtedly change. It is normal for older children to feel jealous, regardless of their age. Firstborn sons often struggle with emotions when they realize they are no longer the center of attention in the family. Each child reacts to these complex emotions in their own unique way. Some may cling more to their parents, while others may become distant. That’s why it is important that parents prepare their children well in advance for a new sibling.

Here are some ways that can help you:

  1. tell them about their siblings
    The first and foremost thing that you need to do is to let them know that they will soon have a sibling. Tell them they are about to become a big sister or brother. Make sure they feel positive about the new member and begin to have warm feelings for the new baby.
  2. know their feelings
    Just telling them about your siblings is not enough. As the parent, you need to find out how they feel. In this way, you can remove their insecurities and also teach them to love and care for a newborn baby.
  3. involve them in their siblings’ lives
    Take their opinion on the name of the newborn. Take them along when you shop for baby. Let them pick up toys and clothes for their siblings.
  4. spend time with them
    While you’re busy taking care of the new baby, make sure you don’t neglect your first child. Taking care of an infant is time-consuming, but every day, sit with an older child, play with them, or help them with their schoolwork. They should be assured that they have your support at all stages of their life.
  5. take them to the hospital
    After their siblings are born, they should be among the first people to meet the baby. They should be introduced and given time to adjust to the new family member.
  6. explain to them what the child wants
    As a child, your first child is unable to understand what the new child is going through. Help them understand what the baby is trying to communicate and make them aware of their needs at that age.

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